Category Archives: Life & Reality

This is a catch all category for my personal musings on topics from iced coffee to travel. If it doesn’t fit elsewhere it should fit here!

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5 Text Message Behaviors You Should Follow

When I am trying my hardest to be a friend to someone they should put in some effort too. When we are nearing the decade of our 30’s it’s time for all of us to pull up our pants and be mature. So when it comes to socializing you just can’t get away with ignoring […]

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5 ways to avoid FAILING as a restaurant patron!

Sometimes I feel like I have become a 90 year-old man with a crotchety attitude way before my time. This is especially true when it comes to etiquette. It makes me physically ill watching how people behave in public today. The biggest offenses seem to take place in restaurants. How hard is it to know, […]

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My Halloween Costumes through the years!

Since I feel like I have only put in a quarter of the effort as I usually do for Halloween I felt like a quick trip through memory lane is necessary. This year we are featuring Where’s Waldo: Here we are featuring Wilson and Tom Hanks from Castaway in 2013. Cowboys for The Painted Turtle’s […]

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Self-diagnosing the cause of this headache

To say I was in a funk last week would be an understatement.  When Monday morning woke me up with those bitter rays of sunshine last week I immediately felt the cosmic pull dragging me into a string of bad days.  From the moment my eyes opened I knew I had a busy week ahead […]

Bobby and Blair in 2012 after first starting to date at Boxers NYC. July 11

After 8 years, we had our first date!

2004: Remember the days before Grindr and OkCupid?  When we had to either use antiquated social sites like or to find other gay men in our area to be friends with, or to do other things with?  Back in 2004 I was one of those people using to see who else was […]

Two Legs and a Twat

Originally posted on Betty, Travelling:
Scotty called it Two Legs and a Twat? It was always in the form of a question. In California, whenever I would bitch about a crappy day job, rickety actor cars and/or not getting the eighth supporting role in some shitty play in a rat-hole he would look at me…

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Personal views on Social Media Audiences: Twitter, Facebook, WordPress & Instagram

In a world overwhelmed by social media we have had to learn how we are comfortable integrating social media into our lives.  It’s a crazy web opening up our lives to millions of people.  Depending on the social media site you are using faceless, nameless people you have never met can comment both positively and […]


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